Lady Sublime de Sade

I am a Southern Lady Spanker and sixth generation Texan who very much enjoys reddening asses. I live and love to spank and to impact others’ lives. I am fulfilling my kinky desires and needs while fulfilling others’ kinky desires and needs - a symbiotic win-win for both of U/us.

I graduated in Los Angeles, California, from The Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, where I was mentored and Certified by the Queen of Dominatrixes Herself, Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD, in the Art and Psychology of Female Domination. I have focused My practice on Discipline, Spanking, Impact Therapy, and Domestic Discipline. I do not offer Dominatrix sessions but will incorporate Domination techniques into My SublimeSpankings, and only if the spankee desires.

I wear many hats; an equal balance of FLR Top, Seductive Sadist, Advisor, and Domme (heavy on Mom). I am many in one. I care deeply, sometimes more than you do about yourself. I see what you don’t, and often understand you better than you understand yourself. Whether you are a bottom, submissive, switch, or experimenting, your life will be positively affected.

Well-rounded in all Domination Archetypes, I am your Mother, your Queen, your Authoritarian, and your Seductress, in balance and perfectly proportioned. A force to be reckoned with and a influence upon your life you will never forget.

When I am Dominating, I am High Protocol, Total Power Exchange TPE. I am always in charge. Topping from the bottom is not tolerated and is considered “assholing from the sidelines”. The session will immediately be terminated with no refund of fees. When I am wearing My Domme hat, I expect obedience the first time, every time. This is My way.

When I am Topping, I enjoy lighthearted and fun Spanko bratting. Role Play is a forte, and I love a good scene disciplining a naughty schoolboy or girl, or doling punishment to a repeat offender. Feel free to consensually brat, but always remember that resistance is futile. You will get your Texas20. Just like you need and want.

Very outgoing, and an extrovert, I can liven up a dead party and get a chat going easily. Like a cheerleader, I can rally excitement. I can and will talk about almost any subject, and have never met a stranger. If I am not leading a group, then I am often either promoting or helping to organize events in some way. I do love to party and helping to create one.

Since 1983, I have lived on both sides of the slash as well as a switch. I understand what it is like to submit. I have experienced the need to submit as well as the need to Dominate. At one time in My life, those feelings occurred simultaneously.

Above all, I honor bottoms and submissives with utmost respect, never overstepping boundaries nor ignoring
safe words.

Clients’ trust and/or submission is a gift and honor to Me. I am sometimes moved to tears by their honesty and trust. I return the honor.

I am who I feel that you need Me to be. Everyone is different, and every session is different. I am not a “cookie-cutter Domme/Top”, One size does not fit all. I customize your spankee experience for you and you alone. No two sessions are the same.

When role playing, I am various personalities. Sometimes I am a seductive Pleasure Sadist, whose red lips, sweet smile, sassy charm, Southern drawl and sultry voice are my superpowers. Sometimes I am a Professora, assigning discipline of many varieties, including term papers and critical analyses. Sometimes I am the Boss Lady, or the Female Led Household Wife next door, or a confident Coworker ordering you about. If necessary, I am a stern and fair Female Judge, sentencing you for your crimes, while other times I am the empowered Female CEO or President of the company by which you are employed, having full organizational power and will punish you as I see fit, including in front of all your coworkers, to make an example out of you and give them a living example of what will happen to them should they mimic your infractions.

Sometimes, I am nurturing and caring; Mother, Aunt, Caretaker, Babysitter, Nanny, Elementary Teacher, your Friend’s Mom, your school Headmistress, Teacher, or Principal, because your little personality needs gentleness, yet also needs firmness. Especially for those who lean toward the bratty side. This behavior must be analyzed to determine the reason behind such bratty behavior. Punishment will be aptly prescribed and delivered. Along with other punishments like mouth soaping, corner time, and writing lines. I’ll invite your friends over to see you being punished. Oh, the embarrassment. You will learn your lesson, sweetie, I promise.

Sometimes, I’m your Female Led Relationship Partner. I am your Dominant hot Wife or Girlfriend, the commanding, sexy housewife next door, or your Girlfriend’s flirty Girlfriend With Benefits, delivering spankings your Girlfriend desires as your girlfriend watches. Sometimes I am your kid’s teammate’s no-nonsense Team Mother. In these Domestic scenarios, I am a dominant and stern Domestic Discipline in-home dispenser, and there is no waiting for punishment, as it happens right then and there, even if you have visitors. I am always ready to redden your arse and teach you a lesson for forgetting to pay a bill, incurring late fees, or paying the taxes late. I will punish for not having the dishes washed properly, or not doing the laundry in a timely manner, or not tidying the house as I instructed. I’ll set you straight with a hairbrush, a belt, wooden spoon, sandal/la chancla, a flyswatter, or any number of household pervertibles. And disciplining you when your friends are visiting and can see your embarrassment is such a delight for Me, I’ll use any excuse to make it so.

Sometimes you just want a sound spanking without Role Play. Not everyone likes role playing and acting like someone or something they are not in real life. No problem! I understand completely. Sometimes you just want to get to the heart of the action with little talk or thinking, allowing yourself to sink into the spank and impact itself. Even when receiving “just a spanking”, you will feel better after receiving your swats. There is no such thing as “just a spanking”. I work very hard to make certain you take away not just a sore arse, but also a warmed heart. I want you to feel better on the inside as well as on your butt.

Those who truly want to make changes in their lives will find My sessions helpful. I’ll ask for areas you’d like to improve, and give instructions or tasks to be completed before the next session. Did you do what I tasked you to do? Or did you not do it? Remember, you asked Me for help in behavior or habit enforcement. Do what you asked Me to do, else you’ll be proper punished.

I do not tolerate stagnancy, disobedience, nor repeat offenses. Growth is sometimes painful, and best taken slowly. Slow change means lasting transformation. Nothing good happens overnight, the new you takes time. Baby steps in a forward motion is leading to a healthier, stronger, more mindful, tolerant you. A you who is accepting of you and your kinky self, as well as of others. Your transformation and growth is not an option.

This is My way.