Lady Sublime

I am a Southern Lady Spanker and sixth generation Texan who very much enjoys reddening asses. I live and love to spank and to impact others’ lives. I am fulfilling my kinky desires and needs while fulfilling others’ kinky desires and needs - a symbiotic win-win for both of U/us.

I graduated in Los Angeles, California, from The Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, where I was mentored and Certified by the Queen of Dominatrixes Herself, Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD, in the Art and Psychology of Female Domination. I have focused My practice on Discipline, Spanking, Impact Therapy, and Domestic Discipline. I do not offer Dominatrix sessions but will incorporate Domination techniques into My SublimeSpankings, and only if the spankee desires.

I wear many hats; an equal balance of FLR Top, Seductive Sadist, Advisor, and Domme (heavy on Mom). I am many in one. I care deeply, sometimes more than you do about yourself. I see what you don’t, and often understand you better than you understand yourself. Whether you are a bottom, submissive, switch, or experimenting, your life will be positively affected.

Well-rounded in all Domination Archetypes, I am your Mother, your Queen, your Authoritarian, and your Seductress, in balance and perfectly proportioned. A force to be reckoned with and a influence upon your life you will never forget.

When I am Dominating, I am High Protocol, Total Power Exchange TPE. I am always in charge. Topping from the bottom is not tolerated and is considered “assholing from the sidelines”. The session will immediately be terminated with no refund of fees. When I am wearing My Domme hat, I expect obedience the first time, every time. This is My way.

When I am Topping, I enjoy lighthearted and fun Spanko bratting. Role Play is a forte, and I love a good scene disciplining a naughty schoolboy or girl, or doling punishment to a repeat offender. Feel free to consensually brat, but always remember that resistance is futile. You will get your Texas20. Just like you need and want.

Very outgoing, and an extrovert, I can liven up a dead party and get a chat going easily. Like a cheerleader, I can rally excitement. I can and will talk about almost any subject, and have never met a stranger. If I am not leading a group, then I am often either promoting or helping to organize events in some way. I do love to party and helping to create one.

Since 1983, I have lived on both sides of the slash as well as a switch. I understand what it is like to submit. I have experienced the need to submit as well as the need to Dominate. At one time in My life, those feelings occurred simultaneously.

Above all, I honor bottoms submissives with utmost respect, never overstepping boundaries nor ignoring safe words.

Clients’ trust and/or submission is a gift and honor to Me. I am sometimes moved to tears by their honesty and trust. I return the honor.

I am who you need Me to be. Everyone is different, and every session is different. I am not a “cookie-cutter Domme/Top”, One size does not fit all. I customize your spankee experience for you and you alone. No two sessions are the same.

When role playing, I am various personalities. Sometimes I am a seductive Pleasure Sadist, whose red lips, sweet smile, sassy charm, Southern drawl and sultry voice are my superpowers. I am a Professora, the boss lady, the housewife next door, a coworker, a judge, your girlfriend’s flirty friend, the CEO of your organization, the President of your company, or any number of confident, empowered, sadistic, mature female-in-charge scenarios W/we negotiate ahead of our session. You may seem alpha at work, dear, but I hold all the power, and will punish you as I see fit. Including in front of all your coworkers, to make an example out of you and give them a living example of what will happen to them should they repeat your infractions.

Sometimes, I am nurturing and caring; your mother, aunt, caregiver, nanny, elementary teacher, your friend’s mom, the Headmistress, your teacher, or your school Principal. Your little personality needs gentleness yet also needs firmness. Especially for taming brats. Their behavior must be analyzed to determine the reason behind such bratty behavior. Punishment will be aptly prescribed and delivered. Along with other punishments like mouth soaping, corner time, and writing lines. I’ll invite your friends over to see you being punished. Oh, the embarrassment. You will learn your lesson, sweetie, I promise.

Sometimes, I’m your Female Led Relationship leader. I am your dominant hot wife or girlfriend, or the commanding, sexy housewife next door. Sometimes I am your kid’s teammate’s no-nonsense mother. In these scenarios, I am a dominant and stern Domestic Discipline dispenser, I ready to redden your arse and teach you a lesson for forgetting to pay a bill and incurring late fees, or paying the taxes late. She will punish for not having the dishes washed properly, or not doing the laundry, or not tidying the house. I’ll set you straight with a hairbrush, wooden spoons, sandals, flyswatters, or any number of pervertibles. And disciplining you when your friends are visiting and can see your embarrassment.

Sometimes you just want a sound spanking without role play. Even when receiving “just a spanking”, you will feel better after receiving your swats. There is no such thing as “just a spanking”. I work very hard to make certain you take away not just a red and sore arse, but also a warmed heart. I want you to feel better on the inside as well as the outside, on your butt.

Those who truly want to make changes in their lives will find My sessions helpful. Did you do what you said you wanted Me to help you not do? Or did you not do what you asked Me for help doing? You’ll be proper punished for that.

I do not tolerate stagnancy, disobedience, nor repeat offenses. Growth is sometimes painful, and best taken slowly. Slow change means lasting transformation. Nothing good happens overnight, the new you takes time. Baby steps in a forward motion is leading to a healthier, stronger, more mindful, tolerant you. A you who is accepting of you and your kinky self, as well as of others. Your transformation and growth is not an option.

This is My way.