Lady Sublime

I am a Southern Lady and 6th generation Texan who loves to redden asses. I live for impact and to impact others’ lives. I am fulfilling my kinky desires and needs while fulfilling others’ kinky desires and needs - a symbiotic win-win for both of us. I graduated in Los Angeles, California, from The Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, where I was mentored and Certified by the Queen of Dominatrixes Herself, Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD, in the Art and Psychology of Female Domination. I am now directing my practice to Impact Therapy, including Spanking and Domestic Discipline, under the tutelage of Miss Chris the Dominurtrix in Phoenix, Arizona. I learn from the best.

I wear many hats; an equal balance of FLR Top, Seductive Sadist, Advisor, and Domme (heavy on Mom). I am many in one. I care deeply, sometimes more than you do about yourself. I see what you don’t, and often understand you better than you understand yourself. Whether you are a bottom, submissive, switch, or experimenting, your life will be positively affected.

Well-rounded in all Domination Archetypes, I am your Mother, your Queen, your Authoritarian, and your Seductress, in balance and perfectly proportioned. A force to be reckoned with and a influence upon your life you will never forget. When I am Dominating, I am High Protocol, Total Power Exchange TPE. I am always in charge. Topping from the bottom is not tolerated and is considered “assholing from the sidelines”. The session will immediately be terminated with no refund of fees. When I am wearing My Domme hat, I expect obedience the first time, every time. This is My way. When I am Topping, I enjoy lighthearted and fun Spanko bratting. Role Play is a forte, and I love a good scene disciplining a naughty schoolboy or girl, or doling punishment to a repeat offender. Feel free to brat, but always remember that resistance is futile. You will get your Texas20. Just like you need and want.

Very outgoing, and an extrovert, I can liven up a dead party and get a chat going easily. Like a cheerleader, I can rally excitement. I can and will talk about almost any subject, and have never met a stranger. If I am not leading a group, then I am often either promoting or helping to organize events in some way. I do love to party and helping to create one.

Since 1983, I have lived on both sides of the slash as well as a switch. I understand what it is like to submit. I have experienced the need to submit as well as the need to Dominate. Sometimes those feelings occurred simultaneously. Above all, I honor submissives with utmost respect, never overstepping boundaries nor ignoring safe words. Your submission is a gift and honor to Me. I am sometimes moved to tears by clients’ trust and generosity. I return the honor.

I am a seductive Pleasure Sadist, whose red lips, sweet smile, sassy charm, Southern drawl and sultry voice are my superpowers. I am nurturing and caring; you will be a better person after receiving proper disciplinary measures and/or guidance from me. I do not tolerate stagnancy, disobedience, nor repeat offenses. Growth is sometimes painful, and best taken slowly. Slow change means lasting transformation. Nothing good happens overnight, the new you takes time. Baby steps in a forward motion is leading to a healthier, stronger, more mindful, tolerant you. A you who is accepting of you and your kinky self, as well as of others. Your transformation and growth is not an option.

This is my way.